In February I turned 24. I dont know if I am afraid of becoming older or if it's becoming more apparent to me that we as humans want to pass on the knowledge that we possess. I haven't had a long life or a degree in anything and you might not learn anything new, but I very much want to share things with you. So, without further explaination, here are 24 things I have learned in 24 years of living.
1. Separating your dark and light colours while you wash your clothes actually does make a positive difference in your clothing. (Adam, you may still not believe me, but the white shirts are whiter! )
2. Trying something and failing is still so much better than not trying at all.3. The longer you wait for something the more value it has.
4. Your memories are important and should be remembered. Whether good or bad, they are what makes your story yours.
5. Seeing the good in other people is a gift. The longer you live, the harder it is to keep that innocence
6. There are few people in this world who will care and refresh you, but their impact carries on for the rest of your life.
7. Listening to other people is literally one of the smartest things you can do. You learn from their perspectives, views, and life that you haven't lived before.8. Knowing your value is so so important. Not only does it teach others to respect you, it is a constant reminder of why you are here in the first place and why you respecting yourself allows you to be more selfless.
9. It is ok to walk away from bad relationships. This relates to friendships, boyfriends, etc etc. Some people aren't worth your time and aren't mature enough for you. Some people are taking advantage of your kindness and it isn't healthy.
10. Tidy room actually = tidy mind. (I know, right? My mom should be so proud of my maturity ;) )
11. Avocados are amazing. Seriously, always say yes to more avocado.
12. If you love something- own up to it! Love it so dearly and unashamedly that people see that you care for something deeply. Love moves people, love motivates, love impresses on our hearts.13. Alone time is so so so important. Analyse situations alone. Pray alone. Breathe and be with your thoughts alone.Be comfortable with who you are when you are alone. You learn so much about yourself and can focus on what is important.
14. God is the only constant ever in your life.
15. On the same note, Christianity isnt the main goal. The main goal is to be Christ like, which is a whole lot more about being raw and real, struggling, and seeing Him work in you.
16. Being polite is always necessary.
17. Keeping a diary is one of the most therapeutic things to have, and is wonderful in an argument. (can be used to tell friend that no, your conversation was indeed in February)
18. Don't mess your face when you have pimples. Its not pretty, folks.
19. If you have the opportunity to travel- always take it
20. Being an owner of a cat was one of the best decisions I have ever made. #catladyforlife
21. Being proactive in friendships isn't needy but rather a good quality to have.
22. Happy marriages are far and few in between and they need a lot of tlc
23. Reading is a lost art, but finding someone that reads books and loves to discuss books may be one of the best things ever..
24. Life isn't about you, and it never will be, which in its own right is quite refreshing.
Thanks for listening to my rambles,
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-Your hippie.
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